Dear Adoption, You Said it Was for the Best
You said it was for the best
But, deemed me different from the rest
Removed me from my mother’s breast
Placed me in another’s nest
I held value when I was born
But, lost it all when I felt torn
Simply a doll to adorn
Forbidden to mourn
You promised what I could not deliver
Breaking the hearts of my caregivers
Alone to shiver
Like Moses floating down the Nile River
At the heart of all was money
But, you lied, and made it sound so sunny
They laugh like what I say is funny
But my words are as rich as honey
An empire built on theft and evil
Causing supreme upheaval
Ghastlier than the era of medieval
It’s time for our civil rights retrieval
You said I would have a dad and a mom
But, I was a fool to believe that psalm
As though you see the future, like you read my palm
But, you just expect me to stay calm
You said I would be financially secure
Pluck me from poverty, like a savior
Said I was a blank slate on your brochure
The wealthy adopters, we must reassure
What I say consumes you with fear
You run a billion-dollar empire as a career
I will not adhere
I will persevere
Sealed records is a civil rights infraction
But, it gives you satisfaction
You don’t want us to take action
Because it will cut your paycheck in a fraction
But, here we are, and united we stand
Louder than a marching band
You’re sinking quicker than quicksand
Trying to protect your brand
The children are the last you serve
Families, you don’t preserve
Turning a blind eye to the suffering you observe
Agitates my every nerve
See, placing children in need is not an issue
It’s when you purposefully search for children to reissue
But, leaving behind their brothers and sisters
Fighting for this business to continue
Coercing women to give up their babies
Threats and manipulations made on the daily
She must be going crazy
That birth-mother lady
You start off that way, assigning titles
It’s the same vicious cycle
Before the baby’s arrival
She’s just a victim to recycle
Another woman is crying
They want a baby, they’re trying
But you say, get to buying
$40,000, they’re supplying
You say, she’ll be just like you
Fit like a corkscrew
But then, she grew
And the similarities were few
But, it’s not you who chose to lie
It’s the child who can’t supply
Now, do you hear our battle cry?
Will you become our ally?
That was great! You really described my feelings too.
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Wow. Like well spun. You write it well. I can only imagine how long you had to chew that all up to be able to make it sound so. Impeccable. Deep. Dark. Bright. Loud and yet soft. Like a knife sharp as a razor. Like slap on the face to a mad man. Well done. I stand with you. Beside you. And behind you. Xo. Sister.
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Excellent!
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This is beautifully written
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Wow Im a birth mom and want to say to anyone who is placing a child for adoption just like Drs to investigate the atty..see if they’ve ever had reprimands or black marks against them..I wish I’d done that now. They not only lied to us but come to find out yrs later from the adopted couple who was suppose to adopt two of my children one went to a totally different couple I had no idea bout who they were or anything then..then blackmailed the person who was suppose to get her saying they wouldn’t get a child at all if they said anything…these are the people that take advantage of those who want to find someone who is loving for their child cuz they are in a spot where they can’t and want to find a safe and better life for them but instead I believe it all has to do with the fees the attys charge for adoption has turned into a bidding war or auction and child goes to the higher bidder..adopted parents are supposed to have back ground checks and home studies done before even being considered..I’m an advocate against abuse and for people rights who are disabled or mentally handicapped it’s alarming the stories of children being adopted by someone who shouldn’t be allowed to adopt due to convictions of viloence but are being allowed to adopt..if the background checks are being changed or what is happening greedy slim shady attys will do this for a price ive found out but the saddest thing is all the child wants they adopt is to be loved like anyone wants to be but instead the child dies..there has to be some way of stopping this. The atty I went thru I had no idea about any of what they did to the couple id chosen till i was reunited with my daughter and the couple told me..ive also been reunited with my daughter this happened to and explains alot of why feels the way she does..she feels like she not only was rejected by her bio parents but then by adopted parents she was originally supposed to to go to…and makes me feel bad..i explained why I’d placed her and her sibs up for adoption and understands why I did it and our relationship is slowly building but still can tell there is still alot of hurt she’s carrying and didn’t want that all I wanted for my children was to grow up happy and better off than I was.
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